Wise insights, Vishnu! It’s hard for me to add to the discussion, but I suppose people can only meet you as far as they are in life in terms of awareness. And that’s where we ALL screw up, how we didn’t know any better. Once you cultivate compassion for yourself and previous partners who hurt you, it’s much easier to heal, move on, and learn from those lessons. I’m glad you’ve learned yours 💕 Much love!