There is nothing wrong with you at all! That’s just how you like things, and I’m glad it works out with David that you’ve struck a balance, and he’s taken on the tasks you don’t want to. It shows your teamwork! It was also so sweet your daughter planned your 40th birthday! That sounds like the most adorable birthday ever. You have such a lovely family ♡ I’m sure they’re nurtured plenty in other ways :)